Nobody is perfect, and chances are there will always be a few annoying things that your boyfriend, husband or partner does. There are some things that are more important that others however, and if you find any of these become reoccurring problems, then breaking up might be the only solution.
1. He cheats on you
This is grounds for instant dismissal. Nobody needs to be with someone who disrespects your relationship that much. If you are not important enough for him to remain faithful, then you don’t need him.
2. He is excessively jealous
Jealousy is a sign of insecurity, and also a sign that your partner doesn’t trust you. No meaningful relationship can exist in a situation where trust is not present. You deserve someone who you believe in, and who believes in you in return.
3. He smells bad
This is just un-cool. There is nothing less pleasant than a guy who smells unwashed, unclean, and who has bad breath. Hygiene is important. Get him to clean up his ways, or get a new boyfriend.
4. He lies to you
This is no good. No good at all. Honesty is a necessity in a relationship. If a guy can’t even be honest with you, then why would he feel that you would want to stay with him? Nobody needs to stay with a liar.
5. He doesn’t care about your feelings
If you ever start to feel that he doesn’t care about you anymore, then it’s time for a change. You are a wonderful person, and you deserve to be with someone who makes you a priority in their life. If your boyfriend ever starts being cold or callous, then it’s time to move on to someone better.
6. He doesn’t make time for you
Maybe you were getting together all the time when you just started dating, but now he always seems to have «something else on». If that doesn’t suit what you want out of the relationship, then let him know. If he still only seems to have time for you when there isn’t something more interesting going on in his life, then dump him. You should be with someone who loves spending time with you, and there are plenty of guys out there who will.
7. You don’t find him attractive anymore
In a relationship, some level of physical attraction is a must-have, otherwise you are better off just being friends. If you used to be attracted to your man, but aren’t any more, see if you can work out what changed. If he used to take care of himself and his appearance but doesn’t seem to make the effort for you anymore, then that might be an indication that he doesn’t feel strongly about the relationship. At the end of the day, if you don’t have some level of physical intimacy, then you are better of just being friends, rather than lovers.
8. He doesn’t talk to you anymore
Communication is the most important part of a relationship. It really is. As long as you can talk openly and honestly to each other, then you can probably resolve any other issue. If you find yourself in a situation where you don’t talk to your boyfriend, that’s a big problem. If you can’t fix this one, then it’s definitely time to leave.
9. You’ve stopped enjoying the relationship
Sometimes things seem great at the start, but then your wants, desires, hopes and dreams have become different as time went on. That’s completely ok. There is nothing wrong with that at all. People grow, and as they grow, sometimes they change. If you find yourself in a situation where you aren’t enjoying the relationship anymore, then you are best to just move on.
Don’t ever find yourself sticking around with someone if the relationship is no longer to your liking. Let it go. There will be something better for you out there, and something better for them also.
10. Your boyfriend stops respecting you
This can happen slowly, or in the blink of an eye. Whichever way it happens though, remember that you don’t need to put up with it. If a couple can’t respect each other, then they aren’t a couple at all. A man who doesn’t respect the woman he is with, doesn’t deserve to be with her anymore, and that’s all there is too it.